Surgery is a go. Dr. Javle signed off on it and we are back in Austin prepping for surgery this Monday, August 17. The kids and I got home on Thursday the 13th. I drove to Houston for the day on Friday to do all my pre-op prep. I met with my surgeon Dr. Curley and we went over the plan. He expects I will be at St. Luke’s Hospital for 4-5 days and surgery will last 1-3 hours or so depending on how much scar tissue there is once he opens me up. SWEET! He will use the same incision he used before and the surgery itself will be just like it was last time. The main difference this time around is he will only be taking a small part of my liver out instead of the 66% he took out last time. He will check while he’s in there for any other areas of concern and remove them.
Recovery this time will be far easier. Last time I ended up needing 2 blood transfusions after the operation because my blood wasn’t clotting. This time that shouldn’t be an issue since less liver is being removed. I also won’t have that adorable little drain that nearly brought me to my knees last time because it was both disgusting and annoying and attached to me for 3 weeks. I won’t have nearly the fatigue I had last time either since I won’t have to re-grow most of a major organ. Once the little offender is taken out it will be sent to pathology to determine what exactly it is. The results take a few weeks as I recall or maybe less. Dr. Curley says he’d say there’s an 80% chance it’s cancer. You all know how I feel about statistics, I didn’t like them in college and I still don’t like them. I am assuming it’s cancer which is why I am opting for removal via surgery instead of a nice out patient procedure that would burn it out of me. We want the data so we can know what’s going on in there.
I’m not looking forward to the pain after surgery and being in the hospital. Major surgery is no fun. Period. Ever. However, we are talking about one spot hopefully and prior to this there were many spots so I am feeling grateful I can get this procedure done and feeling very supported by my rock star surgeon. He is my kind of guy. As he said to me, he’s been aggressive with my treatment from the beginning and will continue to do so. That’s what I want.
My fabulous mother-in-law is en route to Austin from PA as I type and will be staying with the kids until next Saturday. We are so thankful she offered to be here and we promise Granddaddy we’ll have her back to the Farm in a jiffy. My Mom and sister will be on hand to help and we thank all the friends that have offered to cook a meal or have the kids over while we are in Houston. Charles will come to the hospital with me and will update the blog so stay tuned.
Phin is all the way better. One spinal tap, 2 ER visits and eight days of headaches was not fun. Despite his feeling pretty awful we did get in 2 boat rides on Lake Champlain on Paige and John’s boat and a girl dinner one night in Shelburne with me, Paige, Dana and Jenny. On the day we left we had breakfast at friend Roxanne and Russ’s restaurant, The Spot with Jenny and her kids Sophie and Lily, Paige and her daughter Caroline, Dana’s kids Phoebe, Leo and Lulu and my two kids. It was Leo’s 12th birthday and special to be there with our Godson on his day.
So people, life is going on. I am eager to get this dog and pony show done as it were and get on to more interesting things. It’s been a wonderful summer and it has gone by faster than any other I can remember. I am so happy in the after-glow of spending time in Vermont with the 3 friends I’ve known longest in my life and who have shaped me, loved me and given me some of the best moments in my life. Their husbands and children are all family to me and I know that I am blessed to know such riches. We also got to swing through Acton, MA en route to Logan Airport to see Sam and Erin Nichols and their 3 hooligans. They are family too and although the visit was too short it was worth every moment and all 50 mosquito bites I got sitting on their deck into the evening.
I am eager to catch up with all my Austin friends, many of whom I haven’t seen since June! I will be sending an email to some of you that have offered to send a meal our way or entertain a kid of ours this week. I have loved all the emails, texts and phone calls I have gotten from you near and far as I navigate this next bump. Please know I smile with each message and want to get back to all of you but I’ve been treading water mainly and haven’t been able to catch up yet.
Gran has arrived safely since I started typing. My niece Zoe has gone off to Colgate today for her freshman year so I am thinking of her and her family as they embrace the seismic shift that occurs when a chickadee leaves the nest. GO ZOE! We are so proud of you as you launch into this chapter. Happy 11th Birthday to Niko Muller today too!
I’m much too tired now to think anymore about what else I should be sharing so I’m off to bed. Here are a few photos from Vermont.
Nite Nite,
xoxo Hilary
Paige, John and I thought this was fitting while we were in the throws of Phin’s illness. We sent it to Charles at work.
On Lake Champlain – Charlotte, Leo and Lulu
Charlotte,Leo, Phin, Lulu, Phoebe, Sophie, Caroline and Lily